Disclosure testing is used by couples who have already been through a betrayal and are trying to rebuild. The partner who was unfaithful writes a full account of what happened — who, when, how often, whether it has ended — and the examination checks that the account is complete rather than drip-fed over the following years.
This is different from a straightforward infidelity test. The question is not only "did something happen" but "have you now told me everything". For many couples, the slow release of new details is more damaging than the original event, and a verified disclosure draws a line under it.
The work is done privately, with real care. Your examiner takes the disclosure statement in advance, agrees the wording of a small number of precise questions with both partners, and gives the result on the day with a written report.
First, the disclosing partner writes their account. Vague summaries do not test well, so your examiner will help shape it into specific, checkable statements. Then both partners agree the questions — the hurt partner needs to feel the right things are being asked, and the disclosing partner needs to know the questions are fair and answerable.
On the day, only the disclosing partner is examined unless you have booked a couples test. The examination takes around 30 minutes with nothing attached to the body. The result covers each agreed question separately, so you can see exactly which parts of the disclosure were supported.
Some couples arrange a follow-up examination at an agreed interval — for example six or twelve months — focused on whether the boundaries set after the disclosure have been kept. Knowing a check is coming helps some couples, and knowing it has been passed helps others.
There is no obligation to plan anything beyond the first appointment. Many couples do one disclosure test and never need another.
Disclosure testing is often used in parallel with couples counselling or specialist therapy, and we are glad to work to a timetable your therapist suggests. A test settles factual questions; it does not do the emotional work, and we will never pretend otherwise.
If a couple is in crisis, or one partner clearly does not want to be tested, we will say that a test is not the right next step. Consent must be freely given, in writing, on the day.
The disclosing partner writes a full account of what happened, and the examination checks whether that account is truthful and complete — so new details do not keep emerging months later.
An infidelity test asks whether something happened. A disclosure test starts from an admission and tests whether the whole story has now been told.
Yes — a written disclosure is what makes the questions specific enough to test. Your examiner will guide the process without putting words in anyone's mouth.
£495 for one person, all-inclusive within 50 miles of Darlington, or £800 where both partners are examined in the same visit. Beyond 50 miles we add 60p per mile, quoted up front.
Completely. The disclosure statement and the report are held securely and released only to you.
Yes. Many couples arrange a maintenance examination six or twelve months on, focused on the boundaries agreed after the disclosure.
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